Hickory Hollow, R.I.P.

Friday afternoon was somewhat of a sad day for me. I was driving around in Nashville from appointment to appointment when I heard on the radio that Hickory Hollow Mall was going to be closing in thirty days. The news took me aback just a little bit. I knew the mall business had gone downhill some over the years. In fact, I couldn’t tell you the last time I had gotten off Exit 60 off of Interstate 24. At one time, the mall was so big that it had its’ own exit. Now, in less than an month – it will cease to exist

Sometimes, whenever I write posts about the past, I always reflect on 100 Oaks Mall. And, granted – as a young kid, I have so many memories of going there with my mother and grandmother on Saturday mornings. But, I have an equal amount of thoughts about Hickory Hollow Mall. For starters, Cain Sloan always used to have their annual Breakfast with Santa, which was always a highlight of the Christmas season. Sears had their snack bar, where you could always find some delicious candy and nuts. And, in the fall of 1988, I remember my mother buying me a couple of pair of stone-washed jeans – the rage of the age – and me thinking I was going to be popular. LOL… But, as a pre-teen and teenager, it was the stores in the mall that really were special to me.

Camelot Music – Located next to JC Penney, this was the record store that I would spend my allowance at more than any other. I remember buying George Strait’s If You Ain’t Lovin, You Ain’t Livin’  and Conway Twitty’s Still In Your Dreams on the same day. But, the purchases there I have the best memories of was the clearances the store had on vinyl. Many classic (at least to me) records on sale for $1.97.

Hickory Hollow Theater – I remember being fifteen and seeing the original “Batman” – well the modern day ‘original.’

Sports Seasons – Back when the Dallas Cowboys won. Yeah, there was a time, believe it or not. I would buy Cowboys stuff as quickly as it could go on sale.

Wonderful Waterbeds – My first question about this is ‘Why.’ Do people still have waterbeds? I remember my parents getting me one for my birthday about twenty-five years ago. My biggest memory of it was it leaking all over the floor. But, I remember many times going in, lying on the bed, and wishing. It was definitely a case of not being what you thought it would be.

B. Dalton Booksellers – Even more than the record store, until I was old enough to venture around the mall on my own, I spent a lot of time in book stores with my mother. There were music history books and ones about the history of television that I would look at. And, there was this magazine that used to intrigue the heck out of a ten to twelve year old kid. I had no inkling that this magazine that I would beg my mother to buy me – and would keep me silent on the way home – would change my life in the way it has. Billboard  Magazine.

So, Hickory Hollow Mall fades into the dustbins of history at the end of the month. My car made the drive across town, and turned into the parking lot to see it one more time. It looked a lot different. I thought about going in there, and if I thought I could have found that ten year old kid and his mother – who knows, maybe I would have. But, I just kept on toward Bell Road. The times keep a’changin, they say…

Back To The Well

Tonight was an emotional night. Heck, they've all been somewhat emotional lately. The past two weeks have definitely qualified as the most balanced of my life. There have been highs, some great highs. And, a couple of lows. The good still outweighs the bad, but sometimes you wonder. You start to assess things a little. Why does one do the things they do? Whether it be radio, writing, working on cars, or horses, passions consume us. Is it too much?

I have asked myself that question a lot over the past few months due to some of life's changes. Tonight was one of those nights where I, for better or worse, received the answer. Kenny Rogers played the Hall Of Fame tonight as part of the Artist-In-Residence series. I will tell you that - though I do consider myself to be a writer and a professional, I am also a fan. I grew up on Country Music. If I didn't have friends to play with growing up, I was listening to the radio, watching TV, or reading Billboard Magazine. (Even at age eleven, believe it or not!) That music, but particularly Kenny Rogers, helped to define my childhood. One of my earliest memories was watching the clouds go around and around as his records would play on my record player growing up. Family trips - either to Illinois or to Hickman County - usually featured one of his 8-track tapes or cassettes in the car deck - sometimes frustrating my parents. You didn't take a Rogers tape out. It was not a pretty sight!

Well, back to tonight. Kenny took fans on a trip through his many musical twists and turns. The psychadelic sound of "Just Dropped In"....the classic story songs of "Lucille," "Coward Of The County," and "The Gambler"....the romantic ballads of "Lady" and "Morning Desire." But, the song that got me the most tonight was one he doesn't do in concert too much anymore - "Twenty Years Ago," a hit from 1987. It took me back a ways to that kid who was studying the charts more than he was his school work. To that kid who made up his own imaginary radio station growing up - WBRQ (W-Burns-Q)....And, now it's been twenty-five years since that song. A lot of changes since then. Many decisions I wish I had back. Some I wouldn't change. I guess life is what you make it...not what it was. If that makes any sense at all.

Listening to many of these songs brought back memories tonight, and reminded me that it is worth it. God has blessed me with a career that has seen more highs than anything else, and I am grateful. I have about five or six different jobs right now, and though there are nights I wish I was asleep at 12 midnight, I wouldn't change a thing. Getting to communicate my love of a song, an album, or the excitement of a high school sports game - I love it with all my heart. I am a very fortunate person to get to do what I do.

There's an old saying about going 'Back To The Well.' Tonight, that's what I did. I may not be the best at anything I do....but I can tell you this...nobody loves all of what they do any more than the person who is writing this. Though there's a lot of uncertainity right now about other sections of my life, I got a reminder tonight of why I do it. Thanks for reading tonight!

WHAT A BURGER!

Ok. I will be a little bit lighter this time out. It's said that you tend to write what is on your mind, and mine has been heavy as of late. Change is never easy, but you have to put your faith in God, and he will lead you to where you need to be....That being said, the title of this blog might let you know that I'm not going to be delving into the deep dark waters this week.

One of my favorite places anywhere is Centerville, Tennessee. The people are super-friendly there and have always made me feel at home since 2007. I am very fortunate to be associated with Kix 96 there, whose manager, Steve Turner is one of the best "radio guys" I have ever met. There are some quirks to the town that gave us Minnie Pearl. Three of the town's best restaurants aren't open on Mondays, but the new Chinese restaurant there makes up for that!

This past Friday, I had a chance to eat lunch at Papa Kayjoe's. Owned and operated by Devin Pickard, it's one of the best BBQ places you'll find anywhere. Great food, and some of the best Sweet Tea - and Sweet BBQ sauce you'll find anywhere.

Devin is a good guy, salt of the earth. He is a restaurant owner, a Church of Christ preacher, and a sometimes sports announced for Kix 96. (I've learned that one must appreciate multi-taskers!) In addition to all that, he posts on Facebook as much as I do. You have to have your priorities in life!

So, to the point. A few weeks ago, Devin posts a picture of their latest creation - the "Papa Porkburger." I wish I could find the picture, but trust me when I say it was huge. I had been tempted to order this mammoth size menu item many a time when I was in town working at the station - or when I was simply bored and wanted to make sure that Sheila had less candy in the bottomless candy bowl at Kix 96.

It just so happened that I was in town this past Friday to do an interview with Josh Turner. After it was over, I had a lot of work to do, but didn't have to return to Nashville at any certain point, so I stayed in the land of the Bulldogs. I decided I would go to Papa K's for lunch. I looked at the menu, and the description "Pork, Hamburger, Cheese, Bacon." I hadn't eaten all day, so I figured "Why Not."

Then, they brought the burger out to me. You can look at me and you know that I like to eat. But, this was one of the biggest burger I have ever ordered. A pair of hands couldn't pick it up! It took a while, but I ate it. I don't know if I have been more stuffed in years. You know what? If you leave off the bread, it's actually nutritious. I mean, meat, cheese, and vegetables. If you believe the Atkins way, you can lose weight eating it. (Yes, I don't need to be told about the word 'Proportions.)

OK, maybe that stretches the truth a little, but if you want something a little different, make the drive to Centerville. If you do so on a Wednesday before 12 or after 3, I will let you buy me one....(Begging is in the 'I Want To Be In Radio' handbook. It's in the same section as asking for concert tickets from the promotion department.)

But, trust me, it's worth the drive. If you're not a glutton like the person typing this, you can box it up and take it home. Just make sure you allow yourself a little bit of time for a nap afterwards...It's good stuff...Indeed!

The Future....A scary thought

I am going to try to be a little more regular when it comes to blogging. Things have been crazy as of late. This blog is going to be one of the most personal I have ever written. It’s one that I’ve started and stopped writing about a million times – well, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But, in talking with a couple of my closest friends this week, I was advised that sometimes being honest is the only way you can really cleanse yourself.

I am in the process of “starting over.” At age 38, it’s not where I envisioned myself being. But, it is what it is. (Whatever that statement means, I don’t know, but it gets used a lot!) The why or when isn’t important. Life is, as Kris Kristofferson once wrote, ‘two stories wide,’ and I recognize that. I guess the most important thing is “What,” in terms of what’s next. After all, that’s the only thing I can control, right?

A few years ago, I went through a major life change. One that I didn’t see coming. Again, if you know me well, you know. But, there’s no need rehashing it. I didn’t handle a career setback like I wish I had. Part of that stemmed from the fact that I never really exuded a lot of confidence. I always viewed myself as someone who just ‘backed into’ what I did for a living. Looking back, that’s not entirely true.

I have never been the wildest color of the crayon box. I always was a little different. But, the one thing that set me apart was that I loved music. I have never been blessed with the ability to sing – but I remember going to the library with my mother, and picking out books that dealt with….the history of the music business. I was more at home at a record store – Tower Records or Ernest Tubb Record Shop – than I was anywhere else as a kid. While most my age were listening to Y107, I was a WSM child – pure and simple. My father burned a lot of miles on Briley Parkway driving over to the radio station office to pick up prizes that I won.

I didn’t realize it then, but I was blessed. Blessed to have discovered my passion so early. But, it wasn’t the standard way to go. I wanted to be in radio or the music business, but sometimes people would say “But, what do you want to DO with your life?” I always thought that of what I did as a hobby, and not something legitimate. But, that was my identity.

Then, I was faced with that “identity” not being there anymore. That led to a bout with depression. There were some decisions that I wish I had back. But, you don’t get those wishes. So, the future is now. I am blessed with a job – no, make that several jobs, that I love doing. Granted, there are nights that I am up at 1:30 am trying to come up with an adjective that I’ve never used before to talk about an album that I think you need to know about, but I am a man who is fortunate. Whether it’s interviewing a new artist, a legend, or broadcasting a high school softball team, I love what I do. I hope that shows.

Still, the future is scary. I am in a “Put up or shut up” mode right now. I’ve got to work as hard as I ever have in my life from here on out. Like ‘The Little Engine That Could,’ I think I can, I think I can! Every time I have had a doubt about something, it all works out. I guess you could say that I am in better hands than Allstate. I know I am. It’s all going to work out. The interesting question is “How,” but I have faith!

In talking with one of my friends this week, there was some concern that I might need to set some goals for myself – if nothing else, to give me something to shoot for besides the next game, show, or interview. So, in no particular order, here’s my seven things on the bucket list – at least for now. I’ll let you know how I do.

1. At some point, I would love to take another trip to California. I love Los Angeles, and seeing the beach here is so beautiful. I also want to go to Bakersfield, and go to the Crystal Palace again. Maybe, even eat the Don Rich Steak there…..Who knows, maybe work will lead me out there…

2. I want to be a better person. Sometimes, because my self-esteem wasn’t the best, I wasn’t the best I could be. I can change that, I think! That includes not shying away from people if I get down….that’s when I need to do the opposite.

3. Though I am starting over, I have been very blessed to have had two children come into my life a few years ago. I’m grateful for those relationships, and pray they continue….

4. I want to take a cruise at some point. I had a chance to do so a few months ago, but I had a prior commitment…..Just something I’ve never done…

5. I want to write an article for somebody that is outside of my comfort zone. Don’t know how good it would be, but would love to try.

6. Three letters…..If you know me at all, you know which three letters those are. (Hint….Read this again. You’ll find them!) I don't know whether I am good enough or not, but nobody loves them more!

7. And, though it’s not the focal point of my life today, the next time…..I want to do it right!

I'll let you know how I do......And, if anyone knows where they can get a good deal on a laptop, my backspace button is about to go out.....(Is that # 8?)

Miranda Lambert: "On Fire" In Alabama!

I will start out this blog by saying what a week last one was – from a professional level. As someone who grew up wanting to be a part of this business, I consider myself very blessed and very fortunate to be able to do what it is that I do. Whether it be covering a high school basketball game, or interviewing artists, I am blessed. The things that I have been able to do as of late I do not take for granted. While I have worked at it for years, I think there is a higher power at work.

Last Thursday, I had a chance, along with some other writers, to go to Huntsville, Alabama to see Miranda Lambert’s “On Fire” tour. I had seen Lambert’s show one time prior – in Pikeville, KY about four years ago with Blake. This was the first time I had seen her as a solo headliner. Her opening acts were Jerrod Niemann and Chris Young.

Jerrod is not your average Country performer. He’s a little quirky, a little left of center. But, that certainly works in his favor. His breakthrough hit from a couple of years ago, “Lover, Lover,” is one of the most infectious songs that has been on the airwaves in quite some time. The business is so hard to predict….but I think Niemann is positioning himself to be an act that will be around for the long haul.

Speaking of predictions, here’s one for you. Right now, Blake Shelton owns the Male Vocalist trophies on the various award shows. But, when his time is up – a couple of years away as the usual cycle goes, I have a good idea who might unseat him. Chris Young has built his career the slow and steady way – a la Chesney – and five number ones in a row later, the man owns the crowd. But, it’s not just airplay numbers or sales related. Have you actually listened to him sing? The guy has got it. Look for a move to the “A-List” very soon.

Then, there’s Miranda. Lambert is one artist that has many sides from an artistic standpoint. She can be a wild-child, but also sweetly sentimental. She showed all sides in concert. There was the bravado of songs like “Gunpowder and Lead,” the emotion of “Over You,” the out-and-out sensual nature of “Fine Tune” – which works so well in front of a crowd. Make that very well! But, the moment that sold me on Miranda Lambert was one that showed just how much emotions were still a part of the music.

Let me explain. You know that VH-1 show “The Best Week Ever?” Well, Lambert hasn’t been on it the past few weeks. Her father-in-law passed away a couple of weeks ago, then she received word that one of her oldest friends had died in a tragic accident. Add to that list that one of her beloved dogs died last week, and nobody would have blamed the singer if she had rescheduled the show.

As the saying goes, however, “the show must go on.” All of these emotions seemed to come to fruition when Lambert performed her career song (so far), “The House That Built Me.” A song that is so much about reflecting on one’s past, Lambert handled the first verse and part of the chorus as superbly as ever. Then, the emotions came to the forefront. Understandably so, she paused for a moment. What happened next was one of the most amazing concert experiences I have ever been a part of.

The audience at the Von Braun Center took the song over – singing Tom Douglas’s deeply moving lyrics back to the singer. Artists sometimes try to get the crowd to sing the lyrics of their songs back to them, and you can’t really tell what is going on. There was no mistake about it, as the audience was heard loud and clear.

Country Music is so often described as a genre that is “Real.” If that term is true, it didn’t get more “Real” than the other night. The bond between artist and fan was never more clear to this observer. Lambert finished the show with her usual aplomb, but to me, that “Crazy Ex-Girfriend” who you might not trust with a can of “Kerosene,” showed her true hand as an artist. It was one of the best concerts I have ever seen.

People in this industry talk about the term “the next level.” I think I mentioned that earlier myself. But, make no mistake about it, Lambert is there. I have a feeling that the “On Fire” tour might put her name on the nominations list for Entertainer of the Year in 2012 – or at least it should. After Thursday night, I can’t imagine anyone doing it any better!

A PROBLEM THAT WON'T GO AWAY

For a lot of reasons, I have been thinking about the past this week. I found – scattered among the many boxes that I have been putting away – my eleventh grade journal. Mrs. Emma Hall, my English teacher then, made us keep a journal throughout the year. Looking back, I’m really glad she did.

One thing is for sure….I was a weird one. There was information about who my dream girl was during my high school years – I named names then…lol…not going to do that now! There was also quite a few blogs---oops…they weren’t blogs then….entries about music. For instance, my dream job was not a policeman….a lawyer….or a doctor….it was “General Manager of RCA Records.” I also wrote about my family, pets, my ten favorite songs, and how I felt to be a teenager. You know what they say about hindsight?

I say that because one of my best friends in the business has been affected by a recent suicide in his community. The child decided to take his own life largely because he felt bullied because he was different. I guess looking back into my past this week was sort of timely, as I revisited a lot of my past thoughts about myself.

Now, I will be the first to say that I had a fairly normal childhood. I can’t say that I really got made fun of too much in school. I was unique that I could give speeches on Eddy Arnold, Buck Owens, and the Dallas Cowboys – which was a very extinct football team during my youth – much like they are now. I was different. And, to be honest, I tried to hide how different I was. I didn’t have any interest in cars---still don’t. As long as they run, I’m happy. I could care less about what the latest fashion styles were – and haven’t changed too much today, to hear my well-meaning friends put it…..But, actually, there’s a record of me being a student at Dickson County High School from 1989-1992, but that’s about all. I wasn’t really there, as I was buried inside of a Billboard Magazine or working at the radio station.

But, bullying does happen, and it does leave an impact. My Junior High years were not fun, and I was at that school recently to cover a basketball game. I looked down the row from me, and I found myself wanting to burst from the top. There was a guy with his wife and two children who were watching the game. And, suddenly I was taken back. Back to the bus I rode growing up. Back to the comments he would always make about me. Back to feeling like I had to hide who I was for the sake of not being ridiculed.

Those feelings lasted the rest of the evening for me. The person in question likely wouldn’t know me from Adam, and has got other things on his mind like we all do – such as how he’s going to pay the bills each month. We all grow up, and we move on. I’m not still mad at the guy who took my lunch money, the one who threw a spitball at me in middle school, or the guy who told me I was going to Hell because I listened to Country Music. Honestly, I’m not.

But, I understand. I can sympathize with anyone who felt like they missed out on their teenage years because they didn’t feel like they could be themselves because of fear of being made fun of. I wish, looking back, I would have just been me – quirks and all. I was so scared of rejection that I took no chances, such as asking girls out, until after graduating high school. If I did think someone was special, I didn’t tell them. After all, why would they think it back?

All that said, I made it through it – pretty much unscarred. But in thinking about bullying, I wish I could offer an answer or a solution. In school, standing up for yourself gets you in as much trouble than if you were picked on. Many systems talk about their “No Bullying” policy. I am a Christian, but pardon me, that is a bunch of utter Bulls…. If a kid goes to a teacher, his day is pretty much done. The other kids are going to tear him up – maybe even worse. I don’t know what to say to my friend, who was upset that people didn’t really want to talk about it. We all have our own past, and maybe that’s it.

Still, there should be a solution. A teenager shouldn’t have to feel that ending their life is the only thing they can do when they are different. You can make it through, no matter how long those nights are when you dread going to school the next day.

If you need inspiration, think of Laura. Now, that’s not her real name. But, in elementary school, we – and I do mean me, as in this writer, all made fun of Laura in first and second grade because she was different. Interestingly enough, I bet none of us ‘cool’ second graders could even remember what that difference was. I haven’t seen Laura in over 30 years. She moved away during those early years of school. But, I hear tell she became a professional model. I hope she did, because she deserved it…

I have written one of the most in-depth and personal blogs that I have ever done. Some might disagree with every word I have written, and It might take some of you back to an awkward time. Sadly, I know that it’s not going to do a damn thing about the problem. And, for all the talk in the world, that is the tragedy. Well, next week, another music blog. That is something I can control……

LARRY BUTLER, R,I.P.

Reporting from New York....(I've always wanted to say that!)

Some sad news to report with this blog......Larry Butler passed away this week. Chances are, if you weren't in - or hadn't studied the business, you might not know who Larry Butler was. He was one of the great record producers in Nashville history. It was Butler's records that he made with Kenny Rogers from 1975-1980 that made me first love this business.

Though there were certain early memories I have of music - "Sunshine On My Shoulders," "Sleeping Single In A Double Bed," and others of the era, it was the music of Kenny Rogers that made me a music fan from an early age. I remember going into Nashville each weekend with my mother to 100 Oaks Mall, and I would drive her, my father, grandmother, and whoever else could hear, crazy by repeating each track on 8-track tapes like TEN YEARS OF GOLD, THE GAMBLER, and LOVE OR SOMETHING LIKE IT. I also remember my mother bringing me home records of Kenny's from that same era. The United Artists logo with the clouds going around in circles as the record turned. Those were the days. It's funny that most people talk about Kenny being a master of the love song, and make no mistake about it----he and Butler cut some classics....but if you listen to those albums, there were some of Nashville's best moments of the 1970s....Mickey Newbury's "San Francisco Mable Joy," "King Of Oak Street," "While I Play The Fiddle," and a song that I would love to hear someone re-cut today, "Buried Treasure." These two men cut some great Southern Gothic records, that covered everything from prostitutes to voo-doo queens. Of course, the singles Butler cut on Rogers were classics too...."Lucille," "The Gambler," "Coward Of The County," plus all of those classics with Dottie West. He also cut records on artists like B.J. Thomas and Jean Shepard. Butler might not get mentioned in the same breath as Atkins or Bradley, but to this child of the 70s, his creations had no less impact. Thanks, Larry, for the memories! I am the better for them!

Remembering "Gentleman Jim"

I recently had the chance to talk with Larry Jordan, who wrote the incredible new biography on Jim Reeves. In reading the book Jim Reeves: His Untold Story, it took me back a ways to much simpler time in life.

Though Jim Reeves passed away a decade before my birth in 1974, his music was still very much a part of Country Radio during the late 1970s and 1980s. I remembered his electronically engineered duets with Deborah Allen and Patsy Cline in the 1980s, which were very much radio hits - even during the "Urban Cowboy" period of the era.

However, I can pinpoint the night that I first became acquainted with the music of Jim Reeves. My family and I had been visiting relatives in Columbia, TN and stopped at the Shady Brook Mall. Even as a eight or nine year old, it was record stores that served as my toy shops. And, Columbia had one - Sound Shop. On the racks was a cassette copy of The Best Of Jim Reeves, Volume One. Released just a few months before the plane crash that took his life, there was something about that voice that intrigued me somewhat.

Even to a child, there was something about the songs - "He'll Have To Go," "Blue Boy," "I'm Gettin' Better," and a couple that had a profound impact on me - "The Blizzard" and "Stand At Your Window." The latter was not even a top ten hit, but when I think of Reeves and his music - that's one of my first thoughts. And, the former might very well be one of my favorite compositions from the late Harlan Howard. Still, when I listen to this recording fifty years later - I can still see the character and his trusted pony roaming the plains trying to beat the frigid conditions home. Alas, they didn't as they were only a "hundred yards from Mary Anne."

I might have been the only kid at Burns Elementary School who listened to Jim Reeves as much as I did Thriller by Michael Jackson. I guess that makes me somewhat of an odd ball, but in the past few years I have learned to embrace my oddness. I continued to listen to the man and his music, and am proud to say that I have most of the music he recorded.

As a biographer, Jordan does a brilliant job in capturing Reeves the artist - as well as Reeves the man. The artist was one of the smoothest voices that has ever lived, someone who could sing just about anything and do it well. The man, well, that is a complicated story. One of the things i had long heard about Reeves was how insecure he was about his talents. How he didn't really see what others saw in him. There were other demons and insecurities, as well. But, as I have found out in the years since I was that little kid coming back from Columbia listening to music from twenty years prior, we all do. I wholeheartedly recommend you to pick up a copy of this book. It's a lengthy read, but a mesmerizing one, at that.

Thanks, Larry, for a trip back in time. I truly enjoyed the book. I know it was a labor of love, and it shows!

For more information on the book, log on to http://www.jimreevesbook.com/

Saturday Night (Sunday Morning) On Music Valley

Yes, I am back writing a blog. There's a lot of reasons that I haven't been on here in a while, but the biggest is that with the new job...and the old jobs, I have been burning the candle at both ends as of late. Some of you have inquired, so I thought I would try to be a little more regular on this thing again.

Tonight was a neat experience for me. Aside from a year in Georgia, I have lived in Tennessee all my life. That being said, there are a few things I have never done. Two Rivers or Belle Meade Mansion? Never been. RCA Studio B? Never Been. The Ernest Tubb Midnite Jamboree? Well, I have been once. About ten years ago, when Rhonda Vincent hosted. I don't get to the Jamboree that often. For starters, it's at Midnight. I have never been a big late night owl, so usually when Jennifer Herron is talking about the Jimmie Rodgers record of the week, I am adrift somewhere in sleep.

Another reason is....it's at the Ernest Tubb Record Shop. Wait a minute, don't misunderstand me. More than any business anywhere, there's no other place I like shopping more. But, I have walked into the store, and came out with enough CD's to almost tear one of the plastic bags the cashier puts them in! It's truly somewhere I love going.

Anyway, earlier this week, I saw that Mel Tillis was going to be the host this week. I have been blessed to have seen Jones, Haggard, Owens, and many of the biggest legends in the format. About the only classic country artists from my lifetime that I have missed are Conway Twitty, Waylon Jennings, and Mel Tillis. Nothing against the first two, but I can wait a little while to see them where they are playing. But, Mel Tillis? I sort of planned all week to go....

Then, Saturday came. Between this and that, I wound up with a case of the "I Don't Give A ____." But, around 11:15 or so, I decided "Why not." I'm glad I did!

At age 79, Tillis is still in fine vocal form, and his comedy bits are as funny as ever. I was totally mesmerized the entire hour. Mel is from that "Old School." He and his band, the equally legendary Statesiders, dress in suits, there's not a lot of lights, and he doesn't move around on stage too much. And, there's not a darn thing wrong with that. Don't get me wrong. I love much of today's music and stage shows, but "Old School" is still a pretty good way to be!

An hour and a half, and he played one hit after the other. "Sawmill," "Burning Memories," and "What Did I Promise Her Last Night," among them. He also did my two favorite songs of his "Send Me Down To Tuscon," and "Mental Rcvenge." It was a great night (or morning?) of music.

I did escape the record shop without a purchase, but hopefully a gift certificate to the store will find its' way to me. It is the holidays, after all, and I heard three albums tonight that I would love to have, and saw two or three books, a DVD, and a WSM T-Shirt.....

If you've never been to the Jamboree, I urge you to check it out. It's definitely a piece of Country Music history. Maybe, being just two miles away from it right now, I won't let another decade pass between visits....

THE OPIUM EQUATION

It was an interesting Saturday afternoon for me. I was invited by one of my good friends, Lisa Wysocky, to attend the book release party for her book The Opium Equation. There were several reasons for my invitation. First, Lisa has been one of Nashville’s top publicists for many years, and I have interviewed many of her clients over the years. I worked under Lisa at a label for a time, and we’ve remained very good friends over the years.

And, there’s one more reason! One of the characters in The Opium Equation is a Dickson, TN journalist named…..Chuck Dauphin. Now, while my namesake doesn’t have a major role in the book, it’s still cool seeing your name in print as a character. And, plus, one of my two scenes in the book has me standing next to Morgan Fairchild. That’s not a bad place to be, I don’t think!

At the book signing, Lisa introduced me to the crowd that was there as a “Character,” before alluding to the fact that I was a character in the book. Someone turned around and asked me “Just what kind of character are you?”

Hmmm…how do I answer that. I have to admit that it made me think a little ‘What kind of character would I be?” Would I be the dashing hero? No, I don’t think that would be me. I’m not the cool one, though it might be fun to be George Clooney or Kevin Costner for a minute. I wasn’t blessed with the swagger. Would I be the brooding mysterious man with a deep dark secret? That might work. But, as many who know me can attest, I don’t really keep secrets that well, so the mystery wouldn't be that well kept!

The stereo-typical smart-aleck Southern redneck. Possibly. I grew up a fan of the Atlanta-based writer Lewis Grizzard, and I’m sure that has affected many of the pieces I have written over the years. But, I’ve never been “mudding,” and though some of my political and spiritual views are very “Southern,” I would be the weakest link at an all-night party in a barn. Heck, I even fell asleep at a Bachelor Party one night, if that tells you anything!

I guess I just need to come to the realization that I’m just me. Though, if I could pick one character to be, it might be Simon Baker’s Patrick Jane from The Mentalist. It would be so cool to have that attitude, and to get away with the cockiness. But, that’s not me, either.

So, Lisa, I appreciate the opportunity to be a “character.” I urge anyone reading this to pick up a copy of The Opium Equation. It’s a very well-written book. But, maybe in the sequel, maybe “Chuck Dauphin” could get a little closer to “Morgan Fairchild.” After all, it doesn’t hurt to ask, does it?

For more information on Lisa's book, log on to http://www.lisawysocky.com/theopiumequation.htm

One More For The Hall!

In the past few weeks, I have written about the merits of Jerry Reed Hubbard and Richard Lee Skaggs as 2012 inductees into the Country Music Hall of Fame. Today, I am going to take a look at the third person I hope gets some consideration for this high honor. I have been talking about the "Year of the Picker," and since the rotating category for 2012 is "Musician," I didn't have to think long about who my pick would be....Donald Eugene Ulrich.

Of course, he's better known to the world as "Dangerous" Don Rich, right hand man for Buck Owens and the Buckaroos from 1959 until his tragic death in July 1974. This is a big statement, but here goes, just as Chet Atkins' strings echoed Nashville, Don Rich's Telecaster licks defined the California sound. Buck Owens said it often.....He would not have been near as successful had he not had Don behind him. Plus, it didn't end there. His harmonies gave some of Buck's records a haunting side that would have been much different without him, and there was his fiddling. As great of a guitarist as he was, he was an equally good fiddler. If you need proof, take a listen to his playing on "Uncle Pen" from Owens' 1971 album Ruby (And Other Bluegrass Specials). It may be the best piece of fiddling that I have ever heard. And, his playing influenced a generation.

Nashville is slow sometimes to recognize the accomplishments of the West Coast musicians. But, before they induct a deserving session player from Nashville, let's give some credit to one of the best musicians that ever lived. Don Rich. Jerry Reed. Ricky Skaggs. Three reasons why 2012 should be the "Year of the Picker."

One More For The Hall

OK...Everyone..I am still choosing my words carefully on the next blog, because I know I am going to make certain members of a political party irate, but it's my opinion, isn't it?....But, that's coming up......Today, I wanted to offer some more thoughts about why 2012 should be the "Year of The Pickers" at the Country Music Hall Of Fame. Last week, I made a case for Jerry Reed in the pre-1980 category. And,I received a few emails agreeing with me, but also asking why not The Wilburn Brothers, Connie Smith, the Oak Ridge Boys, and / or Dottie West? All of you are right, they need to be there....but so does Jerry Reed.

Another artist who deserves enshrinement in the Hall is one that is largely responsible for bringing awareness to a classic musical art form---not once, but twice. In the 1980s, it was he, along with Hall of Famers Reba McEntire and George Strait who helped usher in a wave of traditionalism. He made songs by Flatt & Scruggs, Mel Tillis, and Ray Price cool again.

Then, following the death of Bill Monroe in 1996, he helped to raise awareness of Bluegrass Music with his great singing and playing, even starting his own successful Bluegrass label. There are quite a few in the post-1980 category that deserve to be in the Hall, but I can't think of anyone more in this category than Ricky Skaggs....

Next week, since the Hall has made the "Musician Category" the revolving one for 2012, I will give you my thoughts about a guitarist / fiddler whose professional career only lasted about fifteen years. But, Nobody was more responsible for one artist's overall sound, and henceforth, a whole sub-genre of Country Music than him. Who is he, you ask? Jim West, if you're reading this....you know! I'll tell you my thoughts on the musician category for 2012 concerning the Hall next week!

BURIED TREASURES

OK, Just so you know I am a little mad tonight over something I read. Maybe, more than a little....I am going to blog on it, but I don't need to do it tonight....but maybe next week....Still, I have some creative energy I need to burn off so, I go back to the well. There is a great Country Classics station in Alma, GA - 104.3 FM, and every now and then, they play things that I think Eddie Stubbs, Ken Loggains, Marcia Campbell and I have heard of. So, for this blog, I thought I would shine the spotlight on twenty records that you have maybe never heard---none of these records were a top ten, but they are truly "Deep Catalog," as Professor Stubbs would say.....

"Someday My Day Will Come," George Jones # 22 / 1979
He wasn't in the best of physical shape here, but maybe that's the point. In all the darkness, the "Possum" still had an ounce of hope.

"Back To Bein' Me," George Strait Album Cut / 1988
You can't really find a Strait non-hit, so I chose this one from his 1988 If You Ain't Lovin album. He's had so many great album cuts, you could do a box set on them alone.

"I Will Rock And Roll With You," Johnny Cash # 21 / 1979
Recorded as the "Man In Black" was celebrating a quarter-century in the spotlight, this one hearkened back to that Sun era like few of his records from the 70s and 80s did.


FINAL TOUCHES, Conway Twitty, 1993
My closest friends will tire of my love affair of this album, which proved to be Conway's last. And, while there may be a little bit of emotion tied to it, this disc was as current and as vital as anything anyone else was doing at the time, and I think could have yielded a few more hits - even during the age of the "Boot Scooters."

"Out Among The Stars," Merle Haggard, # 21 / 1986
Though I personally think Waylon had just as strong of a cut on this one, Haggard's version of a young man who can't escape his heritage is one of his unsung classics.

"The River Unbroken," Dolly Parton, # 63 / 1988
Her first single for Columbia after a two-decade partnership with RCA, this one was very Pop---even then, but the lyrics were strong then....and blow me away now.

"I'm Not Trying To Forget You," Willie Nelson # 21 / 1986
WSM-AM was what I listened to growing up, and they played the heck out of this one, so I assumed it was a bigger hit. Still, a great performance.

"When I Loved Her," Ray Price
Historians will debate how Price's lush recordings stacked up to his 50s Traditional ones. I say put anything he's ever done - 50s through today - against anyone. He may be the best singer to ever grace the Country format. From his late 60s / early 70s years, this one could teach lessons today.

"You're Gonna Be (Always Loved By Me)", Reba # 33 / 2005
This song about a mother's love still gets me. I remember the first time I heard it - coming back from a long trip in a procession to Centerville, TN in October of 2005. That's all I will say about that.

"Our Old Mansion," Buck Owens, # 91 / 1977
A lot of people just assume that Buck Owens never cut anything great after the death of Don Rich. That's not exactly true. While nobody appreciates Don as much as me, there were still a few moments of brilliance - though nobody heard this one. I will say that if Don were on this one, it could have been maybe the best recording Buck ever made...

"Tulsa," Waylon Jennings, 1971
Hear ye, hillbilly bad-ass wannabes! Being an "Outlaw" is a lot more than how much tobacco and dirt roads you sing about. Taken from the perspective of an ex who goes after the man his lover left him for after he leaves her pregnant, well...I wouldn't want Jennings on my trail.

"Getting Over You," Hank Williams, Jr, 1974?
Written after a suicide attempt, this might be one of the most grittiest things Bocephus ever cut. Kid Rock could knock a remake of this one all the way to Grammy contention

"Goodbye" / Alabama, 1990
They've had so many hits, but this one never was released as a single. From their Pass It On Down album, this was Randy Owen at his best.

"Oh, How I Miss You Tonight," / Jim Reeves
Though an electronically engineered duet with Deborah Allen made it to the top ten in 1980, I am still surprised that Chet Atkins didn't release the original. It could have been a smash of the magnitude of "He'll Have To Go."

"Have I Got Some Blues For You," Charley Pride / # 14, 1987
After over two decades with RCA, Pride made a comeback in the late 80s with this one. It was a big hit, but a lot better than # 14!

"L.A. To The Moon," Ronnie Milsap / # 45, 1992
Milsap was in the process of leaving RCA when this lame duck single was released----but there was nothing second rate about the quality of it. This is one of those songs that is out there, hanging around for someone, I guarantee it!

"Goin' Back To Alabama" Kenny Rogers / 1981
Kenny Rogers has had success with many styles over the years. This may be one of his best-written songs of all time, produced by frequent collaborator Lionel Richie. And, if you are fortunate to find the Share Your Love album from whence it came, listen to that harmony.....from Michael Jackson, no less.

"Talkin' To Myself Again," Tammy Wynette / # 16, 1988
This song was part of a comeback for Tammy during her Higher Ground phase, but I would put this in a list of her top five records---a lot higher than it made it on the charts.

"Double S," Bill Anderson / # 30, 1978
From the disco-oriented Ladies' Choice album, I've always admired how Anderson tied so many words and names together.

"The Man In The Mirror, Jim Glaser / # 17, 1983
Simply put, one of the best songs by one of the best singers. Ever. Period. And, that's how I feel!

Well, writing about these songs made me feel better. Still mad, though. You'll hear about that next week. Let's just say that experts are a dime a dozen.....and some aren't even worth that much!

Back To School And Other Things!

This was the first week of school in Appling County, GA, and our daughter returned home from her summer in Kentucky. It’s been a good first week of school, though I have to admit I didn’t know you had to fill out that many papers. “Back In My Day,” I just remember Mama having to sign one or two. Times change, I guess. Going back-to-school shopping has been fun, expensive……lol……but fun. One day this week, my daughter asked for “Ten dollars…plus tax.” Man, I pity the guy who takes her out in a few………That’s right, she’s not dating until she’s 30…………!

Football has kicked off. NFL Preseason is going strong. I guess because of the recent strike, I have watched a little more than the first quarter. I actually screamed the other night when the Cowboys came back to knock off Denver 24-23 this past Thursday. I guess I thought it was the Super Bowl! Don’t look for either of these teams in it. I’ll give you my predictions in just a few weeks. For the first time since 1990, I will not have anything to do with a High School sports broadcast, though I still will be covering for newspaper. Tonight, I was taking pictures of the team I will be covering in their scrimmage. While I love football from late September on, it takes a few August games to understand why it gets under your skin so much. It’s hotter than Kathy Sue Loudermilk in a cellophane bikini! (Coffee is on me at the Huddle House if you know who she is!)

Career-wise, this summer has been on of the craziest of my life. I have interviewed CNN hosts at the Opry, stars like Ronnie Dunn, Miranda Lambert, Ricky Skaggs, and Jake Owen, and the calendar keeps filling up. It’s not quite as glamorous as it looks (Try transcribing a 20 minute interview when you are sleepy), but I feel totally blessed to have had some of the opportunities I have had over the past month or two. Oklahoma, the Opry, and Dickson County / Bacon County High School. It all works together.

Musically, I want to leave this week with two separate thoughts. First of all, some really good stuff out there right now. You need to look up Blake Shelton’s RED RIVER BLUE on iTunes. You will find a cover of Dan Seals’ “Addicted” that will knock your socks off. Speaking of Blake, his prettier half is part of a new trio called the Pistol Annies that is well worth looking out for. Trace Adkins has a new album out that is great, and two Grand Ole Opry mainstays have new music coming out. Connie Smith’s first CD since 1998, LONG LINE OF HEARTACHES, comes out next week, and it can be summed up by saying “It’s Connie Smith!” Also, Jesse McReynolds of Jim & Jesse has a new disc out where he salutes tunes from Jerry Garcia and the Greatful Dead. If you know your history, they aren’t as far apart as you think…

And, I have been campaigning (for what it’s worth) for 2012 to be the “Year of the Pickers” for the Country Music Hall of Fame. I’m not a voter, but over the next three weeks, I am going to tell you who I would vote for, beginning with……..

Category of ACTIVE BEFORE 1980: Jerry Reed

With his work on TV and in the movies, Jerry created a persona that made him a household name. At the same time, it made him known to many as simply Burt Reynolds’ sidekick who made his name with some of the top novelty songs of the day. However, look closely at his resume, and you will find one of the most influential guitarists of all time. Chet Atkins even said that Reed himself had no idea how good he was. His recordings were far more balanced than he’s given credit for, and yes, he was one of the biggest stars of his time – regardless of what his records were or weren’t doing at the time. I think it’s high time that Reed “Claws” his way into the Country Music Hall of Fame………Next week, I’ll tell you about a guy from Cordell, KY who made songs by Flatt and Scruggs, Webb Pierce, and Ray Price cool all over again, and he’s a pretty good picker too!

More Random Ruminations

It has been a very busy past couple of weeks......There's a lot of things to talk about......So in honor of Joe Biddle, here's my Random Ruminations of the week....

The NFL / Well, it’s over. The lockout has come to an end. Now, we can concentrate on the truly important things about the league – Where will Brett Favre play? This time, I think he is actually…..well, maybe, retired. After last season, why would he put himself through that again? He is familiar with Andy Reid’s scheme, having played under him in Green Bay. But, I don’t see “Favre-watch” being Ed Werder’s assignment in August. I hope he doesn’t come back to play for the Eagles, though. I rooted for him as a Viking for a lot of reasons, but if it came down to the Philadelphia Eagles winning a Super Bowl, or the lockout continuing….I would choose the latter. In other NFL news, the Tennessee Titans have signed Matt Hasselbeck to a 3-year, $21M deal. Seven million a year? To Hasselbeck? I have a feeling before it’s all said and done, some fans in Middle Tennessee are going to wish that Jeff Fisher was back in town. Nothing against Mike Munchak, but the Titans seem to me as exciting as a cardboard dinner!

Country Music Hall Of Fame: Nobody has asked my opinion on this, but I will offer it. 2012 is just a few months away, and if any voters for the Hall are reading this, I know that the revolving category for induction next year is Musician. So, with that said, if 2012 is the year of the Picker? What about Ricky Skaggs in the post-1980 category? Strait, Reba, and Alabama are all in – so should he. Jerry Reed in the pre-1980 category, as he was one of the most dazzling talents of all time, and was much more than a comedy actor. And, in the Musician category….Donald Eugene Ulrich, better known as Don Rich, leader of Buck Owens’ Buckaroos. Was there any musical performer that was so much a key part of another’s sound? I don’t think so. Reed and Skaggs are fairly good bets, but I hope the Hall realizes that there was some great musicianship that took place away from Music City. Nothing against Buck, but I don’t know if Don Rich doesn’t have as many admirers in the business as the Boss Buckaroo.

BACK TO SCHOOL: It’s been twenty years since I have went “Back To School,” but is it weird that I am looking forward to hopefully going to Wal-Mart this weekend to get my daughter’s Back To School stuff? Maybe it’s just getting it out of the way, so I’m not running around in too many circles the week after next……but, I can’t wait to hit the store this weekend!

CONGRATULATIONS – Two of my good friends, Sheila Wooten and Tommy Vann, from Kix 96 in Centerville tied the knot in a lavish ceremony in Hickman County last week. OK, maybe it wasn’t so lavish, but they couldn’t have made better choices. Best wishes for a long and happy life together.

PASSAGES: On the other side of that fence, Burns Church of Christ lost two longtime members this past week with the passing of Elsie Crumpler and Christine Alheit. I was proud to say that I knew them both. My sympathy to their families.

FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS: Though this appears to be the first year since 1994 that I won’t be behind a microphone for High School Football on Friday nights, I will still have my pen and keyboard in hand. I will be covering Bacon County High School football for the NEWS COURIER in Alma, GA. They’ve got a new head football coach named Bobby Johns who lives and breathes football. I’ll have more updates as the season goes along.

WASHINGTON DEBT CEILING: Who knows how this debt situation will end up. What amazes me is how stubborn both political parties are being about this. I have never seen a situation where the Democrats or the Republicans were totally right or totally wrong on an issue. Boehner seems like he won’t cooperate with anyone, and President Obama looks like he won’t budge either. A compromise needs to be had. Who will be the first to blink?

AMY WINEHOUSE: I won’t tell you that I was her biggest fan. Had nothing against her, but “Rehab” was the only song that I was familiar with. I just found it sad that I saw a lot of conversations this past week with a lot of “Better than thous” condemning anyone who had a self-destructive life. I doubt very seriously that any of the “27 Club,” as they are now being referred to as, set out to die. But, one thing to remember. Before Amy Winehouse was a star, sex symbol, addict, or whatever….she was someone’s daughter. And, for those who want to point the finger, were it not for the grace of God, she could have been yours.

JORDAN HILL HAS LEFT THE BUILDING – Though I continue to work for various publications in Tennessee, since last October, I have been one of the contributing writers for THE NEWS COURIER. Tuesday was a sad day as Jordan Hill left the paper to embark on her college career at Valdosta State. Write the name down, folks. She’s just eighteen, but you know how you have a feeling about certain people. She’s going places. I might end up working for her one day! The best of luck to you Jordan, and remember….”Where’ve You Been!”

A Bucket List, Part 3!

This week, work-wise, has been a very interesting week. From an interview standpoint, the cup runneth over. I was beginning to wonder where my next round of interviews for stories were going to come from. Now, with ten this week, and one already lined up for next, I'm in good shape.

As I've often written, if I could pick out one of the things I do that I love more than anything else, it would be the interview process. First of all, as unprofessional that it might be for me to say, I'm a fan--of a lot of people. I truly look at it as a blessing to have gotten to talk to as many people that I admire that I have. Secondly, I love asking an artist a question that they're not expecting. That pause you get when you've asked Kenny Rogers about a 1978 album cut rather than "How did you feel the first time you heard 'The Gambler'...is one of the greatest feelings in the world....

My theme this month has been "Bucket Lists." So, I thought I would apply that to interviews. Who would I like to sit down and talk to that I haven't? Some of these, I never will...but it doesn't hurt to dream! I broke this down into four categories, because I didn't want to turn it into "Ten Musical Acts I've Never Interviewed," but that's where I'll start.

MUSIC: Reba McEntire: She's one of the top performers that I've never talked to. I would love that opportunity sometime in the future. An actress, a singer, and a businesswoman, there's so many angles.

Dolly Parton: Speaking of angles...You know, even if she didn't have a massive amount of sex appeal and charisma, she still would be the greatest female songwriter in Country Music history. Between those songs, Dollywood, and the fact that she keeps creating great new music like her latest, Better Day, the possibilities are endless.

SPORTS: Jimmy Johnson: OK, I am a Dallas Cowboys fan. You all know that one. But, I don't think I have any more admiration for a public figure than Johnson. Simply put, I think he's an absolute genius. Cocky? Sure. Maybe a little over-the-top at times? Sure. But, having observed his coaching and television work, I would love to sit down and talk to this man and see what makes him tick.

Joe Gibbs: OK, Cowboys fans, I'm sorry. No, I'm really not. While I could never root for Gibbs' Redskins when they were playing "America's Team," how could you have anything against this man. He's one of the nicest guys that has ever coached in the NFL, and talking to him about character, I think would be a great conversation. He definitely knows a lot about it!

POLITICS: Lamar Alexander: As a Tennessean, I was a child during his term as Governor. I've always admired the work that he did, but also he was the link between the "Good Ole Boy" days of old in Tennessee and the modern-day era. Those old days weren't so bad. He could agree with a Democrat like the late Ned McWherter, and disagree with someone in his own party. That's bi-partisan!

Bill Clinton: No matter what one thinks of the 42nd President's personal life, I don't think that anyone could disagree with him being one of the greatest politicians of all time. He knows people, and it shows. The man seems equally at home at the U.N. or a Hickman County Football game, and you don't see that every day---from either party.

MEDIA: Dan Rather: I was seven when Walter Cronkite retired, and with CBS being the most-watched network during most of my TV addict years, Rather was the newsman of my youth. JFK. Chicago '68. So many events, and he was the one transmitting the news to the people. It would be neat to hear his thoughts as he watched history unravel.

Bill O'Reilly: Some of you aren't going to like this one, but it's my list. The man fascinates me. I don't always agree with the FOX nighttime host, but I love watching him. I guess my favorite part of his show is the mailbag at the end. Is he smug or just confident? So are the mysteries of life!

Well, I've got to think about a couple more of these lists....So I will do that now. Have a good week, everyone!

A Bucket List, Part 2!

This month has become the one of the “Bucket Lists.” Last week, I gave you twelve of the twenty-four states that I have not been to yet that I would like to the most. With that said, here are twelve cities that I would love to visit. A few of them I’ve been to, but some leave the impact on you…..

Places I Have Been

Los Angeles, CA – I will say that while I could never live in L.A., I would love to have reason to go there three-four times a year. I love landing at LAX (The small-town boy in me is coming out), and the Pacific Coast Highway is one of the best trips I have ever taken. Throw in Hollywood and Disneyland, and I will forever be hooked. Just leave me a day to drive to Bakersfield and have the “Don Rich Steak” at Buck Owens’ Crystal Palace.

Savannah, TN / Iuka, MS – As a Christian, I wonder what Heaven might be like. I can’t imagine it being any more beautiful than this area down in Southwest Tennessee / Northern Mississippi. You haven’t ate catfish till you got to Pickwick Landing (a.k.a., “Paradise”) and Iuka is a gorgeous retro-looking town that has what I believe to be as the only old-time Wal-Mart in the area. Would love to live there one day!

Mackinaw City, MI – I’ve been there twice, but the last time was 1986. One of Northern Michigan’s treasures, it has one of the longest bridges in the world, and is adjacent to tourist attraction Mackinaw Island, where you will find some of the best fudge that has ever been made!

Western Kentucky – I have always loved this area. From the gorgeous shimmer of Kentucky Lake to the delicious food of restaurants like Patti’s 1880’s Settlement (http://www.pattis-settlement.com/) and the Brass Lantern, it’s an area that I miss a lot. There’s also some great antique spots, including one with a Hee Haw and Grizzly Adams lunch box. I would still love to have those.

Fayetteville, AR – I love SEC Football, and I would love to hit all the SEC cities before my time is up. I have a few close friends in “Hog Country,” and would love to see it. Heck, Jimmy and Jerry went there, and that’s enough for me!

Dallas / Fort Worth, TX – I’ve been there twice, and was there for an hour last week, but there’s something magical about the land of the Dallas Cowboys and Southfork Ranch. Some of the best Mexican food you’d ever want to eat, and just one of America’s most beautiful cities! I would also have to drive into Fort Worth to see the Stockyards and Billy Bob’s.

Green Bay, WI – While my blood runs Cowboys blue and white, with a little bit of Vikings, Titans, and Jets thrown in, unless you’ve been to Green Bay, it’s one of those towns that will make an impact on you. People there don’t just love their team—they own it. I’m not going to compare a football stadium to a religious experience, but there is something very special about Lambeau Field.

Four That I Haven’t

Phoenix, AZ – It’s one of the biggest cities that I have yet to visit, plus the area is beautiful, and I’ve got a standing dinner invitation from a good friend there that I would love to take him up on, even if I were to ask a ton of questions about his former boss---the one with the Red, White, and Blue guitar!

Key West, FL – I can count on my finger the number of alcoholic beverages I consume per year, but who wouldn’t want to go to “Margaritaville.” Don’t we all want to be like Jimmy Buffett?

Chicago, IL – While my father is from the other end of the northern part of the state, I have only spent about 90 minutes in the state’s biggest city---at O’Hare. I would love to see so many things in this city, Soldier Field, Wrigley Field, and the Sears Tower? Oprah, can you make it happen?

Las Vegas, NV – It would be neat to see one of the cities that never sleeps. The music, the food, and…the shopping. I will throw money away, (a bad habit when I have it), but you won’t see me doing any more than quarters in the casinos…Hear the outlet shopping there is incredible. (Yes, I am a man!) And, would love to see that guy named Garth that plays there from time to time!

Next week, I have been very fortunate and blessed to have interviewed a lot of people, but who have I not talked to that I would love to? I’ll give you that “Bucket List” next week!

On The Other Side Of The Hill: A Bucket List, Volume 1

As I write this, I sit in the boarding area at Houston, Texas. I was very blessed to have gotten a chance to do some work in Oklahoma over the weekend. With this trip, I now have went over the halfway mark in states that I have visited. Seeing the beautiful ranches and prairies here has made me realize again how much I love to travel. I haven’t gotten a chance to do much of that lately, but would love that to change. With that in mind, I am 26 states down, 24 to go……Here is my bucket list of states I would love to visit before I go to that big airport in the sky…..

Hawaii----For obvious reasons. Don’t know if the finances will ever be there for a trip like this one, because I hear that it is expensive. But, I love the ocean, and where better to experience it!

Minnesota-----You’re probably thinking that by first two choices are a contrast. They are, but I like it where it’s cold. Plus they have the Mall Of America, where I would love to go to once, and Brett Favre played there….What else is there to say!

Alaska-----Lobster, Crab, and some of the most beautiful scenery amywhere. I’ve seen pictures!

Maine----Everyone who has ever gone talks about the beauty of it, but would love to make the trip!~

Massachusetts-----Would love to see Boston, Kennedy Country, and have some Clam Chowder there before I die….

Vermot-----I worked for some great friends of mins a few years ago, who always talked about flying me up there for a weekend. I would still take them up on it…..I have heard the fall is majestic up there.

Connecticut------Would love to see at least one Men’s or Women’s College Hoops games from there, and if Pat Summitt and the Lady Vols were visiting, that would be fine with me!

Arizona----I have a couple friends out there that I would love to meet from my radio promotion days. I like it out west, and I bet they would have some great Southwest cuisine.

Pennyslvania-----Well, I don’t care for the Eagles or the Steelers, BUT….I do like Hershey’s, and would love to go to the Candy factory….but would I make it out alive?

Nebraska---I can’t say I have a huge fascination with the state, but in College Football, the Cornhuskers are legends…..If nothing else, to buy a Nebraska T-shirt…

South Carolina----Because of its’ location, it’s the only southern state I have never been to. One of my best friends and former co-workers lives in Charleston, and would love to see Myrtle Beach!

Kansas-----Again, like Nebraska. It’s a sports state, and if Kansas or K-State were playing hoops, I would love to be there. Plus, Pittsburg has the funniest radio guy in America….with 100,000 watts of humorous power! I bet he loves that pun!

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FYI…..The other twelve states left would be

Delaware

Idaho

Montana

New Mexico

New Hampshire

North Dakota

Oregon

Rhode Island

South Dakota

Utah

Washington

Wyoming